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Dos and Don'ts of Wedding Guest Attire

By Staff Writer
Share to PinterestDos and Don'ts of Wedding Guest Attire

Being invited to a wedding can be very exciting. Beyond the hubbub of seeing a couple get hitched, which is fine and dandy, it gives you an excuse to update your wardrobe. Before you go out looking for formal attire in the latest trend, however,  there are some things you should know. For example, there are very off-putting colors for people to wear to a wedding as a guest. You can avoid the embarrassment that comes with making a social faux pas by preparing in advance for your shopping trip. With a little time and patience, it's easy to choose colors that are socially acceptable to everyone who'll be attending the soiree.



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It’s very bad form to wear the same color as the bride. It’s the one color that is 100 percent unavailable to guests. The bride wants all eyes on her, not someone who she invited to watch her get hitched. If you wear patterned clothing to the wedding, make sure that it’s not predominantly white. Suppose there is a small amount of white present in the garment, no worries. If the clothing is white with a pattern on it, save it for another occasion. You’ll have plenty of time to enjoy wearing it elsewhere.



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It’s not a competition — no one but the bride should be wearing a color such as ivory, eggshell, or off-white. That goes for the bridal party and guests because it takes the focus off the couple getting married, which is very rude. Many brides find that the dresses they choose are described as ivory by the retailer they buy them from before their wedding day. It’s easy to see why you should be discouraged from wearing any shade of white to a wedding. Even if it isn’t bright white, it doesn’t necessarily sit well with the couple getting married.


Champagne or gold

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Some couples may opt to go with a slightly darker shade for their wedding attire, so champagne and gold are two colors that are considered acceptable for people getting married to wear at modern weddings. Silver is another color that you can check off your list of wedding don’ts. It's not uncommon for a wedding party to use metallic colors as part of their ensemble. Yes, that means that all the flash belongs to them.


Pale Pastels

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The lightest of pastels often look too close to white in photographs. That’s why guests are advised not to wear them. Instead, choose a color that complements the couple’s color scheme without clashing too much or looking like you’re a part of the wedding party. Leave the pastels for the bridal party and groomsmen whose attire gets approved by the couple before their wedding day.


Sparkly Metallics

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As with any other stand-out material, too much sparkle competes with the bride. The only exception is black-tie events where formal dresses are permissible. Even then, you may want to tone it down some so that the couple getting hitched are the only ones in the spotlight. You can dazzle in your metallic dress somewhere else.



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An electric color has its place in different settings, however, you shouldn't wear it to a wedding because it’s too in-your-face for most people to handle.  Save that mesmerizing ensemble for another event that is a little more forgiving of your bold fashion choices.



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Not necessarily a color per se but more of a fabric option, denim has no place at a formal wedding. Unless the couple specifically states that you can wear jeans to their special event, you should never feel tempted to do so. Instead, invest in a nice pair of slacks or a neutral-colored skirt. The idea is to blend in, not stand out. Do your part to keep the focus on the couple. You’ll have your chance to shine on another date.



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Black is a formal color accepted in many social settings. It is, however, not culturally acceptable in many cases. For example, at a Hindu wedding, it can be viewed as a sign of bad luck to see people dressed in black. For the sake of a couple’s beliefs, select a different color to wear to their special event.



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In some cultures, red is for the couple getting married. You should know that red is associated with good luck and prosperity in Chinese and Hindu cultures. The tradition is something people highly regard, so putting away that red dress or suit jacket in favor of something more subtly colored is highly recommended by wedding experts.


Skin tones

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Any garment that's too close to the same color as your skin or absolutely sheer is a big no-no. It’s not the time and place to debut that outfit. Save it for another event where it will be better received. You don’t want anyone questioning the appropriateness of your choices when you’re supposed to be celebrating.


Wear something comfortable

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Attending a wedding often means hours of celebration, from the ceremony to the dance floor. While it's tempting to choose the most glamorous outfit, comfort should be a top priority. An uncomfortable outfit can distract from the joy of the occasion. Opt for breathable fabrics, well-fitted garments, and shoes you can dance in. Remember, your comfort will shine through in your demeanor, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in the festivities.


Consider the wedding dress code

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Every wedding has its unique flair, often communicated through a dress code. Whether it's "black tie" or "garden casual," it's essential to respect the couple's wishes. Dressing appropriately shows your appreciation for the effort they've put into their special day. If unsure, it's always better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed. After all, weddings are a celebration of love and commitment, and your attire should reflect the grandeur of the occasion.


Check the weather

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While we'd all love for every wedding day to be sunny and bright, the weather can be unpredictable. A few days before the event, check the forecast. This simple step can save you from unexpected discomfort. For instance, a predicted evening chill might mean bringing along a stylish shawl or jacket. Being prepared allows you to enjoy the day, come rain or shine.


Wear the right undergarments

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The foundation of a stunning outfit often lies in what's unseen. The right undergarments can elevate your chosen attire, ensuring it drapes and fits perfectly. Invest in quality pieces that offer support without sacrificing comfort. Whether it's a strapless bra for that off-shoulder dress or seamless underwear for a fitted gown, the right choices can make all the difference. After all, confidence starts from within, and feeling great in your outfit is half the battle.


Lean toward modesty

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Weddings are joyous occasions that bring together families and friends. While it's a chance to showcase your style, it's essential to strike a balance. Overly revealing or flashy outfits might draw attention for the wrong reasons. Aim for elegance and modesty. Choose outfits that make you feel confident but also respect the sanctity of the event. When in doubt, classic cuts and colors are always a safe bet. Remember, the day is about celebrating love, and your attire should complement the occasion's beauty.



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